A summary for those who are considering intervention
Intervention using a professional is often a last resort during difficult and painful attempts to share educational information about a disturbing and obsessive social and ideological orientation or relationship. Whoever you look to for help will generally have a huge relational problem to mend prior to any attempt at intervention. Typically, as family and friends try to share information critical of the group, leader, or ideas, the group member reacts emotionally due to feeling persecuted, misunderstood or ridiculed by a critic. Intervention may not be the best solution or a solution at all.
Intervention with a cult specialist is an attempt to educate someone about options and perspectives they may have not considered with the hope that they absorb enough useful information over time to choose a better way to think and live.
Most people contact me for intervention consultation about someone they know after that person has become deeply enmeshed in a relationship or group with cult-like features that may include deceptive and manipulative group or church influence, gaslighting by a life coach or guru, financial entanglement with a con-artist, or a self-driven obsession with a conspiracy, weird occult path to enlightenment, or an online self-improvement scam. Other factors might include questionable diet changes, intrusive relational advice, and spurious spiritual awareness rituals that might include drug (entheogen) use or excessive mindfulness and meditation either at home or at an exclusive, expensive workshop.
The result of harmful cult-like behavior can be summed up as personal, social, emotional, and intellectual constriction that leads to psychological closure.
In brief, a rigid or facile us versus them posture arises.
Cult behavior in some contexts can be fulfilling, stabilizing, and socially acceptable. In those cases, devotion to a special idea, path, person, object, or group does not result in psychological closure.
If that sounds like a contradiction to you, you will need to do more research into what a cult actually is. Simplistic definitions are generally not useful and can be misleading.
Cult behavior like most any behavior exists on an influence and behavioral continuum of benefit to harm. For example, just because someone chooses to become a Buddhist after growing up in a Christian or Jewish family does not mean they are in a bad cult.
I do not take cases to bring someone back to a family religion or for their spiritual “salvation.”
Assessing where someone is on that continuum or spectrum of harm and what if anything can be done about it is the job of the cult specialist you will hire. I have often applied the “six stages of change” model to help assess how deeply someone is involved in a group or teaching.
Hiring anyone in this field, a field that is basically unregulated and unlicensed, places a burden on the client, so buyer beware: Do your homework. Even credentialed interventionists, therapists, and “experts” may not suit your specific needs.
Fees for consultations among “cult intervention experts” or exit counselors by any other name can vary widely. Keep in mind that someone like me who has been at this for four decades, since 1980, has valuable information and skill. Sliding scales depend on whom you consult.
The video on the right, “How to get someone out of a cult” has a misleading title that I correct during the interview. Interventionists do not “get someone out” of anything. The rigorous educational and discursive process of intervention or “exit counseling” provides a means and reasons for a person to choose out of the controlling group or abusive relationship.
Please email me for first contact. I will charge for all audio and video contacts as well as in person meetings at agreed upon rates.
jszimhart@gmail.com
If you are interested in consultation regarding personal matters, recovery, general information, or interviews, please email me at jszimhart@gmail.com
Three short videos you can view to familiarize with my work:
The first is a four-minute interview with me done by a New York journalist for the Berks Story Project at my studio in the Goggleworks Art Center in Reading, PA.
The second is one of my YouTube channel series of over 70+ videos.
The third is by Inside Edition for its online outlet features one of my interventions in Australia.
Basic Assumption States: How Cults Self Seal
Joseph Szimhart, 2024
Basic assumptions about self-sealing groups or cults can lead to stereotypes about group behaviors, brainwashing, and the hypnotic powers of a leader. We tend to toss easy to recall labels, terms and phrases around about what we view as strange, foreign, threatening, or other. “Them” stands in for most labeling of things not “us.” Labeling or stereotyping is normal as it helps us to quickly signal others about how we view something or feel about it. But taken too far, the label shrinks and seals or constricts reality and allows us to easily dismiss the other as false, threatening, insane, or evil. Labels can become thought-terminating cliches.
This brief paper will provide a summary of how I have come to define a constrictive, exclusive cult and how brainwashing or group manipulation works.
Basic assumptions in groups and Bion
Wilfred R. Bion (1897-1979) published his landmark study Experiences in Groups (and other papers) in 1961.[i] He was known for Containment Theory and Object Relations Theory. He was an influential English psychoanalyst, who became president of the British Psychoanalytical Society from 1962 to 1965.[ii] He developed his analysis of group behavior during the 1940s when he was assigned to treat and observe “neurotic” soldiers suffering from acute anxieties. Over time, Bion noted that neurotic soldiers tasked to form groups to solve problems without his guidance tended to exhibit patterns of behavior informed by what he called Basic Assumption States. He also noted the most pathological (antisocial) or narcissistic individual in an unguided group tended to emerge as the leader. The basic assumption states appeared generally in three types: Pairing, dependency, and fight/flight. Further studies have expanded on Bion’s legacy about group behavior and the number of basic assumption states.[iii]
Bion’s goal was to help his patients emerge from stilted basic assumption states (BAS) heal as a Working Group that was no longer locked into pairing, dependency, or fight/flight states. These BAS could shift over time reflecting several themes. For example, a fight/flight group might become a dependency group after the convincing narcissistic or psychopathic type among them manipulated his way into power.
Pairing group
The basic assumption that would solve the problem for this group was the production of a messiah or a super leader. This might occur through sex or breeding, but it could also be realized by the coupling of two leaders who will work out solutions for the group or give birth to a saving idea. The limitation here is that the group submits to the new solution or messiah without further work, which is harder. The basic assumption state or group mindset rules until a new pairing produces a new messiah.
Dependency group
After the most pathological or narcissistic person emerges as leader, the group falls into a basic assumption state as dependent on the leader who has acquired God-like status, transcending the wisdom and power of the rest of the group. Resentment might eventually take down the leader, only for a new omniscient leader to emerge, thus sustaining the basic assumption state of dependency: The king is dead; long live the king!
Fight/flight group
The group comes to believe it must preserve itself at all costs. If it has to run or hide or form a remote commune, it will. If it cannot escape outside threat, it will fight and perhaps die as martyrs. Group members under this tension may try to avoid hostile meetings, but the leader can readily mobilize anxious members to flee or fight. The mission to flee or fight creates what Emil Durkheim called “collective effervescence” driven by group emotion or the madness of a crowd.[iv]
Groups collapse into basic assumption states by creating a Self-sealing Social System that, in my model, has four aspects:
1. Transcendent attraction
The idea of a better world, becoming a better person to help create that world, and survival through that change comprises a transcendent attraction for anyone anxious about achieving those goals. At this entry stage to cult behavior, intentions are positive, and hope runs high. The contrast between the ideal world presented by a group and the fallen state of the world and the self creates more anxiety that the new attraction promises to relieve through techniques, teachings, rituals, and commitments.
2. Authoritarian leader
The guru, teacher, pastor, or spiritual director not only defines the transcendent attraction, but also interprets it. The basic assumption that the leader has access to omniscient insight, extrasensory powers, or mystical attainment through personal experience and training becomes a matter of faith that resists criticism.
3. Circular tensions as devotional orbiting
The transcendent attraction defined by the leader becomes the overriding center of psycho-social gravity. A group member or devotee must commit deep mental attention to the source of teaching to stay on course, as if tethered to a central pole at the cosmic center of the universe. The basic assumption is that this version of transcendence is the truth unlike any other. Daily rituals and dogmatic instructions remind the group member of his place. Tension arises between obedience to the leader and distractions and doubts outside of the orbiting mission. The follower can never be the leader and can never leave the path.
4. Exit perils
Commitment comes with costs that include intellectual, devotion, financial, social, spiritual and psychological themes radically divided by the special interests and demands of the group in tension with outside noise. That outside noise may appear as demons, fascists or liberals, infidels, traitors, the unclean or impure, ignorance, or the enemy. To consider defection means to lose salvation, investment, social ties, certainty, purity, and face a difficult readjustment path. Robert Lifton called this “the dispensing of existence” or who had the right to salvation and life and who did not.[v] To dare to exit becomes a choice between being and nothingness.
Personal experience counts for something when relaying information about anything or choosing something, but as I tell my clients, your experience is only the beginning of inquiry on the path to truth, wisdom, or accuracy. Too many people use this self-serving aphorism: I know it’s true because that was my experience that it was true. That level of prejudice, seeing truth primarily through personal experience, is the major reason why so many people are vulnerable to deceptive and manipulative cons and cults. How many times have we heard a confidence man, or a health tonic hustler say, “Try it. Experience it for yourself! Money back guarantee! The first one is on me!” The basic assumption here is that something inside of you—your intuition, your conscience, your deepest inner being, your streetwise BS detector, your sensual experience, the Holy Spirit, your psychic ability, or your higher self—will engage to help you decide what is not only right “for me” but also right beyond further inquiry and outside criticism.
Appealing to our vanity and craving for certainty is precisely what a deceptive product salesman or follower-hungry guru or prophet does to grab our attention: The choice is yours! You are smart. You will know whether it is true for you. Perhaps most people will walk away sensing a hustle, not convinced to buy it or try it, but those that dare to try and who feel good with the initial results for whatever reason have entered the path toward total compliance whether they know it or not. You try a new and improved herbal supplement brand, it makes you seem to feel better, and you end up with a room full of products you cannot sell after two years because you succumbed to a multilevel marketing hype. And you still will not quit because the group appeals to your vanity again to try harder—you will succeed!
Your basic assumption becomes this: I am not a stupid person, and I do not do stupid things. Or: I will know when to stop or leave. Those two mantras have guided any number of otherwise accomplished and intelligent people into some of the most bizarre, deceptive, or harmful cults that keep them sealed in a delusional experience that might last a lifetime.
[i] Experiences in Groups and other papers by W. R. Bion (1961)
[ii] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wilfred_Bion
[iii] Bion’s Legacy to Groups edited by Parthenope Bion Talamo, Franco Borgogno, and Silvio A. Merciai (1998, 2018)
[iv] “The Road of Excess” by Sebastien Tutenges (Harvard Divinity Bulletin, Winter/Spring 2013) https://bulletin.hds.harvard.edu/the-road-of-excess/
[v] Thought Reform and the Psychology of Totalism by Robert J. Lifton (1989 edition, pp 433-435),
Why consult with me or hire me?
This is an expansion of my background mentioned in “About me” on the menu.
You will notice that I am not credentialed as a counselor or therapist. When I began helping people to choose out of cults at the end of 1980 with some success, I had recently emerged from nearly two years of participation in a major New Age cult. Since then, I have formally assisted in over 500 interventions internationally with most of those ending with the cult member choosing to defect from the group. Perhaps 40% resisted the intervention and remained in their respective groups.
My intervention career slacked off considerably after 1998 when I took a job at a psychiatric emergency hospital where I eventually worked as a crisis caseworker for 23 years in the intake department. That job required a variety of tasks and skills including management of unruly patients, taking suicide hotline calls, processing voluntary and involuntary clients for admission or referral elsewhere, advising police departments and emergency room personnel, insurance precertification, and training new employees. The job was very demanding and at time dangerous.
For one year in 2000, I was a Primary Therapist for a recovery house for men with substance abuse histories. I was an outlier in that field as I was the only therapist in that company with no history of an addiction. My experience with cults offered a unique approach to recovery. Before I left the job for another that paid better, the company offered me a position as director.
During 1976, I taught art courses inside the maximum-security New Mexico State Penitentiary.
In the early 1970s, I was employed as a therapeutic Activities Worker at a large asylum (Pennhurst) for intellectually disabled adults.
I have lectured about the cult problem for police departments, Native American tribes, churches, colleges, high schools, business clubs, Freemasons, Mensa conferences, Unitarians, anti-cult conferences, and sociology of religion conferences for academics.
Cults come in thousands of shapes and have a variety of purposes from religious, political, scientific, athletic, sexual, therapeutic, financial, social, self-improvement, philosophical, liberal, conservative, criminal, or merely ridiculous.
I have become familiar with hundreds of types of cults that range from very simple premises to demanding intellectual programs. Cult members can commonly have high IQs and higher educations, depending on the group agenda. For example, I conducted an intervention with a young man in a cult of twenty-five medical students led by a professor who used the manipulative Fourth Way teachings of G. I. Gurdjieff. I have also intervened to help a young woman choose out of a neo-Nazi militia commune that eschewed higher education of any kind.
In 2016, the International Cultic Studies Association gave me a Lifetime Achievement Award in recognition of the many people I have helped and for my contributions to society to recognize the dangers of deceptive and harmful cults.
What this award means is that since 1980, I participated in many hundreds of interventions and have helped thousands of individuals and groups through personal contact, Internet, phone calls, lectures, litigations, letters, coincidences, YouTube and Podcast appearances, television shows, and countless hours over the past four decades of volunteering to write book reviews and articles and assist ex-cult members in chat rooms. I will not detail all the harassment from cults and cult members I have endured along with my colleagues in the field.
The cult I was most involved with for nearly two years before self-defecting in 1980, Summit Lighthouse or Church Universal and Triumphant, combined a variety of religions and occult practices including fundamentalist Christianity, ultra-conservative politics, Theosophy and New Thought religions, Hindu and Buddhist beliefs, secret approaches similar to Freemasonry, the power of magic words through excessive chanting, spiritual and personal development though vegetarian diet, sacred colors and music, contact with ascended masters and angels, and cult-like social pressure to conform and donate. As a result of my extensive efforts to sort through all that to decide what was real, what was historical, and what makes any religion healthy or not, I developed a vast, workable knowledge of cults and cult behavior.
One of my many YouTube appearances. This one is a discussion with ex-scientologist, Chris Shelton on his Sensibly Speaking podcast.